Frozen

Sometimes I just want to freeze time. Every phase my kids go through these days is a favorite and these childhood years are slipping away so fast.

This morning was one of those cherished moments. Usually I go to boot camp from 6:30-7:30 a.m. but I hurt my neck yesterday and took the day off. When Bode woke up, he crawled into bed to snuggle up to me. “Tell me some stories of when I was little, Mom.”

And since I have the long-term memory of an Alzheimer patient, I turned to this blog’s archives, reading him his birthday letters I’ve written every year in July since he was born.

When Hadley woke up, she curled in next to us and we read her May birthday letters. “I can’t believe you’ve been doing this every year!” she marveled.

We teared up a bit as we laughed our way through our adventures long forgotten. I reiterated how privileged I am to be their mom and the pure joy they bring to my life every single day, despite the fact that sometimes this motherhood gig is really overwhelming.

Even though I’m so behind and busy these days, I’ve recommitted to writing their treasured stories because someday when they’re grown and gone, I’ll look back and realize how truly choice, golden and blessed these years are.

And I don’t want to ever, ever forget it.

 

Laughing

Steamboat Springs for Spring Break: Oh, What a Relief It Was!

Once upon a time when I was a Utah-based travel writer, I fell in love with a foreign land of steaming hot springs, world-class mountains, a charming rodeo and 7 miles of multi-use paved trails that wind through downtown along the roaring Yampa River.

That was summer in Steamboat Springs and though I’ve lived in Colorado for 10 years, I had yet to visit during the winter. We finally made it happen this week during Spring Break.

Five Great Reasons to Spend Spring Break in Steamboat Springs

5) Hot springs.

Old Town Hot Springs

Old Town Hot Springs

Steamboat isn’t Steamboat without soaking in one of their two natural springs. Strawberry Park Hot Springs’s stone-walled pools 9 miles north of town are in an idyllic forest range and water temperatures range from 102 to 104 degrees. But be warned: clothing is optional after dark.

On our recent visit, we had a grand time at the more family-friendly Old Town Hot Springs with their eight hot spring-fed pools, a 25-yard lap pool, a fitness center, exercise classes and massage services. A huge hit was the climbing wall where attempt after attempt was made to climb to the top, ring the bell and jump back into the water. There are two 230-foot water slides for kids over 44 inches that are open seasonally (winter and summer). I screamed in trepidation the whole way down while both my kids laughed, which means the slides are actually really fun for those who don’t need a pacemaker.

4) Horseback riding with Del’s Triangle 3 Ranch.

Steamboat Springs is renowned for its Western charm so we couldn’t pass up the opportunity to go horseback riding with one of Colorado’s oldest licensed outfitters, Del’s Triangle 3 Ranch, which offers hourly horseback rides (kids need to be at least 6 years old) and summer pack trips. The half-hour shuttle ride from town to their 6,000-acre ranch in the Elk River Valley was my favorite part of the trek as fourth generation Steamboat native, Olympian and cowboy Ray Heid delighted us with stories of his family’s colorful history in the valley.

horsebackThere are around 40 horses housed at the ranch. My husband rode Kirby, Bode teamed up with Music, I was on Boots, while Hadley rode Bode, which made my son humorously uncomfortable to think of his sister riding his namesake. For our winter horseback ride, we wore our ski clothing but turned out we didn’t need them. Though the snow sparkled around us, the spring temperatures were toasty as we rode through the aspen forest with staggering views of Hahn’s Peak and the knees of the Sleeping Giant (a.k.a. Elk Mountain) bowing before us.

There were moments of excitement. When Bode’s horse lagged behind, Music kicked it into gear with a full-fledged canter. “Was it totally fun?” I asked overly-cautious Bode. “Not really,” he dryly retorted (read: understatement). Later in the ride, another horse bit my horse Boots’ behind, to which he responded with a swift kick to the horse’s face, freaking out Jamie’s ride. Lesson learned: don’t nip my butt. Kissing is just fine.

3) Steamboat Sleigh Ride Dinner at the Haymaker Golf Course

Put this one on your bucket list for next year because the final day of Steamboat’s Sleigh Ride Dinner is March 29, 2014 and the 8 km of cross-country ski and skate tracks and 3 km of snowshoe trails will close April 1.

sleighI’ve been to a few sleigh ride dinners and usually the drill is to ride to dinner in the sleigh, eat and return. However, we took a shuttle bus from the Steamboat Grand to the Haymaker, warmed up with hot beverages and appetizers (I’m still salivating over the fried artichokes) and placed our dinner order. We then journeyed back in time as we snuggled up under a blanket in our 20-person sled as a pair of draft horses kicked up plumes of snow while they pranced through the Yampa Valley’s dazzling white dreamscape.

Upon our return, a gourmet three-course dinner was promptly served and the lineup included choices like a sultry roasted red pepper and tomato soup, beef tenderloin (my daughter’s “most favorite steak ever”), Macadamia nut crusted halibut and warm molten chocolate lava cake with raspberry sauce. While my kids played cards by the fire, my husband and I watched the sunset, wishing this Frozen evening could last forever. Just call me Elsa.

2) The others.

Photo: Howelsen Ice Arena

Photo: Howelsen Ice Arena

There so many things to do in Steamboat Springs that we couldn’t fit everything into our two-day visit. An absolute must is F.M. Light & Sons. If City Slickers want a real pair of cowboy boots, this is the place to find ‘em with literally hundreds of choices, as well as stylish western wear and novelties the kids will love. Be sure to pop into Lyon Drug & Soda Fountain next door for awesome gifts, cards, lotions, potions and spring for an old-fashioned soda. Another local’s favorite is Freshies Restaurant. Their breakfasts are legendary but this time we did lunch, which was equally delicious. Dear Freshies’ specialty salads, sandwiches and onion rings: I’ll be back.

Bucket list: Bump-n-Skate. Bumper cars on ice? You betcha! These bumper cars have four tiny wheels and are propelled by a small motor with hand controls that will have you bumping, sliding and laughing at Howelsen Ice Arena. Be sure to check their website for their bumper cars on ice schedule as well as public skate sessions.

1) Steamboat Springs, The Mountain.

skiingThe thing that keeps everyone coming back is Steamboat Springs’ 2,965-acres of champagne-powder bliss. Steamboat is actually a complete mountain range: Mount Werner, Sunshine Peak, Storm Peak, Thunderhead Peak, Pioneer Ridge and Christie Peak. Despite the vastness of the terrain, what I loved most about Steamboat was they have only one base area, making it easy to navigate.

When we dropped the kids off at ski school, they were each outfitted with a Flaik GPS device and we were later able to track their whereabouts. Jamie and I took a private lesson with 27-year Steamboat veteran Dave Hartley who did a phenomenal job teaching us the secret to skiing (ski uphill fast), had a gray jay eating out of my hand (literally), and pushed us to our limits by having me conquer my worst nemesis: trees (his advice was don’t ski the trees, ski the open space!)

At the end of an exhilarating day, we picked up Hadley and Bode. Hadley was thrilled to graduate to a Level 6 skier with Bode hot on her trail for next season. We skied as a family until last chair and they were eager to show off their refined skills. We hit one of Steamboat’s four terrain parks, Lil’ Rodeo Terrain Park, which is more challenging than it sounds with small boxes, jumps and a mini half pipe.

familyMy kids loved the mini-half pipe (or rather, a quarter pipe a.k.a. a half-pipe for wussies). My first time through the terrain park, I inadvertently caught about three feet of air on a jump, swore, somehow landed on my feet and regrouped.

I later concluded that learning to fly at Steamboat Springs wasn’t so bad after all.

Steamboat Springs closes on April 13, 2014 with plenty of fun events in the line-up including the 34th Annual Cardboard Classic, where costumes and themes go a lot further than engineering and craftsmanship for these corrugated creations. On closing day, the Splashdown Pond Skim tests the mettle of those who dare brave the freezing water at the base of the mountain. Thanks to Steamboat for hosting!

St. Patrick’s Day and Why Shamrock Cookies Rule

Just as I was slowly digging myself out of a hole, I spent most of yesterday in bed. Though my lovely virus is no longer keeping me up a night (blessings!) a deluge of spring allergies and cramps have taken over. You win some, you lose some, right?

Though I’m still feeling under the weather and am now (count ‘em) several weeks behind on getting caught up, I’m counting my blessings. I had a mammogram a couple of weeks ago that revealed “irregularities” so had to go to the Breast Cancer Center for more tests. For almost two weeks, I lived under the dark cloud of “I may have breast cancer” and was relieved when my new tests turned out normal last Friday. On that same day, my mom was released from the hospital and yesterday, I tested negative for whopping cough.

You could say I’d just like to forget last week even happened.

Through it all, we’ve been having some fun festivities. I’m a holiday gal but if I was to list out my favorites, St. Patrick’s Day would be near the bottom so I don’t put much effort into it. That said, I’m not one of those naysayer moms who poo-poos holiday revelries. While my kids are little and still want to believe and build leprechaun traps, far be it for me to squash their imaginations and enthusiasm for the whimsical, fun parts of childhood.
Of note: Bode did not catch a leprechaun. This time.

Because I was feeling sick, I kept the mischief to a minimum. Knocked-over traps, green milk, a chocolate gold coin trail leading to their treasure in the basement (highly-coveted Nutter Butters) and Lucky Charms for breakfast. We kept it simple but my kids were thrilled.

We also made shamrock-shaped sugar cookies for friends who’ve helped me survive the last couple of weeks.

Confession: We ate far more than we gave away.

That night, we had the missionaries and a friend over for dinner. I have always hated Irish food but at a recent Costco visit, the kids and Jamie begged me to make corned beef for St. Patrick’s Day dinner. I relented and paired it with potatoes and a green salad. To tie it all in, I made one more Irish item: soda bread. Since I haven’t met a homemade bread I haven’t liked, I figured there would be at least one Irish food I liked.

I was wrong.

Next year, I’m sticking with shamrock cookies.

Please act quickly to ban the sale of marijuana in our community

I have been extremely outspoken in my disgust for the legalization in Colorado. It is a battle I will never stop fighting as I see the moral degradation of my beloved community. There are no gray areas here, no “taxes that will benefit” the community. Wrong is wrong.

Federal agents believe drug cartels have moved into Colorado and are using the recent legalization of marijuana within the state as a front to make money illegally. Drug cartels – both from Columbia and Mexico – have suffered major revenue losses following the legalization of recreational marijuana in Colorado on January 1. The Feds believe the gangs will now turn to the legal businesses in the state to find ways of making up for the shortfall in their profits.

This post is a call for my local residents to act quickly and please share this with your friends and neighbors ASAP. There is an upcoming vote in the city council on Monday to allow or ban retail sales of marijuana in our town. If passed, this would allow new bakeries and candy shops to sell products laced with marijuana in addition to other new freedoms to grow and sell this drug in our community.

Of concern: there are only 3 solid votes from the council to ban. The other votes are undeclared or up in the air. The primary reason to allow it would be for additional city revenue. Any money the city would take in would pale in comparison to the quality of life in this city. We need to fill the city council room Monday night so that the city council understands the significance of support for a ban. To date, the council has received 24 letters which is a wonderful start. We need to have 240 letters. Please take a few minutes and write yours before Monday.

Updated:

Thank you to everyone who wrote! The sale of marijuana has been banned in our city!

The view from here

My bed buddy Fat Kitty

Reentry into the real world after our epic trip to Maui has been rough. I’m going on my second week with a virus that is at the the fun cough-til-you-puke stage and I’ve only been getting a few hours of sleep at night if I’m lucky. Saturday night I was such a basket case over my lack of sleep I drove myself over to a new ER clinic that opened near our house to get anything I could to help me stop coughing so I could sleep.

What they prescribed didn’t work.

So I went two more sleepless nights and finally called my doctor’s office Exempla Family Practice Specialists yesterday and left a message with the nurse to call me with another prescription. I didn’t hear back, didn’t hear back. I finally followed up later in the day and that nurse was unavailable again. By now, I was ticked. What kind of doctor’s office doesn’t call back? I left a not-so-kind message and voila, an hour later she returned my call and said she couldn’t prescribe anything new without seeing me (and she couldn’t have told me that earlier?) And, of course, it was too late in the day to set an appointment so I’d have to go another sleepless night.

Suffice it to say, I am switching doctor’s offices after my appointment today. This is only the tip of the iceberg of the unresponsive and apathetic staff I’ve had to deal with there. I put a call out to my Facebook friends for local doctor recommendations and I was, quite frankly, appalled at some of the experiences others have had in dealing with inadequate care. I’ve resolved to accept nothing less than excellence when it comes to my family’s health and it’s sad that so many practitioners are forcing us to settle.

What I’m going through is minor in the long run but I have a potentially serious follow-up health appointment on Friday that has been weighing heavily on my mind. Jamie has been having a bad rheumatism attack and my mom is back in the hospital, which is another story entirely.

Can you tell I’m stressed?

I’m way behind on catching up. I was sitting here beating myself up that I can’t focus to get any work done and that little voice inside my head whispered, “Be kind to yourself. You have a lot going on. Get better, focus on what is important.”

After a week of health crisis, it’s a sobering reminder of what really matters.

My dream home in Maui’s upcountry

My Maui Dream Home

I’m still working through all the fun details of our trip but something I was not prepared for was falling in love with Maui’s upcountry. With sweeping ocean views, a gorgeous tropical mountain setting, cooler climes and wonderful people, this area really had it all.

I’ve never understood snowbirds, particularly because I love winter. We know quite a few who head south when the temperatures drop but I’m just not a fan of Arizona or most parts of Florida. However, there is a couple in our ward who winter in Hawaii and *that* I get.

It’s not uncommon for me to check real estate listings when I return home from a trip but I’m at the borderline obsession stage looking at cottages in Maui’s upcountry. I wouldn’t go during my beloved winter…we’d summer there (sounds perfect, right?)

Most of the homes were just that–dream homes. Really big, really expensive and frankly, I’m just not the type to buy a big, stuffy ostentatious home or car. But I found this little gem in the upcountry that is right around the corner from the Kula Lodge, a place we loved. (See the listing here).


Though the price isn’t nearly as steep as its waterfront counterparts, $785,000 is a tough pill to swallow for a three-bedroom, 1,600-square-foot cottage. So who wants to go in on it with us? Or, I am generously offering it up to you because we’ll never be able to afford it unless I win the lottery. You buy, I come visit.

It’s a win-win for everyone.

Bode’s computer consulting business

Still digging myself out of being sick and getting caught up. I was gleaning my archives and realized I never published this post I wrote once upon a time.

I often joke that my children will be much more technology-savvy than I.

Last week, I realized just how true that is when I brought out my old laptop for Bode as I worked. I turned on the power button and waited.

Me: “It’s just booting up, Bode.”

Bode: “That’s wrong, Mommy. It’s loading, not booting.”

FYI, hardware boots, software loads.

Bode will be available for computer consolations in a few years.

P.S. This picture is of my sweet boy snuggling all his stuffed animals at bedtime. He’ll later itemize each of them on a spreadsheet.

The Amazing Race: Maui

We’re back from an amazing 9 days in Maui and it was truly an adventure of a lifetime. We’ve traveled extensively and this was our favorite trip, ever.

Many more details are forthcoming but I’m wading through a deluge of deadlines and emails. Oh, and I decided to get sick at the very end so my all-nighter on our red-eye flight home was super fun.

In the interim, Jamie put together a fun video with some of our adventures.